Be Grown

Some people need to learn to live within their means. I mean truly understand and live that.

I'm still learning this myself so I can not very well lecture anyone and tell you how to do this and be successful when I am still learning that very thing myself. But I can tell you if u plan trips, excursions, shopping for material items that are not necessities, happy hours and outings BEFORE you make sure your necessary bills and needs are paid to keep going...then I can bet ur not living within ur means.

You will NEVER be happy or content as an adult always asking friends and family for help when ur luxuries get cut off.

If u choose to live that way then kool it takes many different types of people to make the world go round, but I truly honestly feel you have NO right to feel that others working their butt off owe you anything.

When u wake up in the morning from wherever it is you laid to sleep it is YOUR choice what you will do. YOu decided what path you will walk down. Don't wait for someone to come show u sympathy or pity for your past. Get up get out and get something. Everyone else is on that mission in one way or another. Why do u have amnesty to not do anything and continue to ask for theirs?!? What gives u the right to get pissed when they choose to say no or don't offer?!?

I do have empathy for those who are up and doing all the can while living with in their means and ends don't meet often. Shoot truth be told that's me,. Even if they are working part time or hustling, but living within their means showing they r trying. Then I am sympathetic to their uncovered needs and don't mind lending whatever services I have to offer. But for all those who just ask and ask and then get tired of asking and expect u to give b/c they don't have...I have no sympathy, empathy, and have a hard time respecting u when u drag me in ur mission to do nothing.

I was once told "to be a grown up is the goal", so I'm working on that and I just think others need to grow up and be grown as well
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