One sided stories

There is always 3 sides to a story. That's what i was taught. Your side, the other peoples side and the truth. Not to automatically discredit anyone from telling the truth, but there are always slight modifications (or huge ones for that fact) that can change the story even the slightest.

So people who find themselves in positions where they have to tell their side of the story to "get others on their side" suck lol especially when they do it like they are doing it persuasively and not just telling oh this is what happened period end of story.

If if it something you have done, or something that affects you personally then stick by ur decision...i mean u made that choice for a reason...or grab your tittys and be a woman and admit that made the wrong decision. But dont tell me your story ending every sentence with "ya know what i mean?" or a phrase close to that...thats just tells me your looking for validation in ur own insecurities and your story could for sure be the one modifications...lol especially depending on how may times you have told your story lol

then it just becomes in to the old mans fish tales...ya know the one who walked to workup hill both ways and caught a fish on his way home from wok that was larger than him and every time the story gets told the hill gets bigger, the weather gets worse, and the fish gets larger LOL

Im just tired of hearing story's of people who made decisions (person A), and then got mad at someone elses actions on their decisions (person B). Person A then retaliates and tells the world to hate person b, and gets their side of the story out and Person B is just screwed! DUMB...when Person A needs to grab ur tittys stick by ur decision or even stick by the fact that u made the wrong decision and not blame anything on anyone else. I mean even if Person B was wrong for their part in the whole situation Person A is the sole one responsible for what went down and shouldn't be rallying against on anyone else on the decisions they made. i mean shoot make it know to the other person u were hurt then cut person b out yo life or make a mend and keep it pushing.

When something dramatic, devastating, and HUGE happens in your life your allowed time to grieve and handle the situation, but your not allowed to get stagnant and continue to stay in that crying place for ever. Then to me it just a sob story with no means of moving on to better things in the future and getting beyond the bad to over come and see how strong u were for dealing with the situation and getting through it. BUT im insensitive and have no heart when i voice my logic.

SO now i randomly rant about it...