So i have a curiosity. I might get a lot of flack for writing this but hopefully i do not and i just get honest answers that arent fueled with angry and hurtful remarks. Just a true discussion...
I am not a person who believes in same sex marriage. I know i am one of the few in my friends and family circle but thats my belief. Its funny because if it were the same thing, but called something different i wouldnt have an issue with it. Because i am to love you for the person you are, its not my place to judge others decisions. I mean its not like i am ever in a position to make judgments on someone else especially with everything in my life they way its going.
I am confused with those who believe in God and yet make the choice to follow "their heart" and commit themselves to another of the same sex. People always try and argue or debate with me about picks and points of the bible and his word or how i follow some stuff but not everything written. To error is human, he knows i will not follow everything that Christ did but the objective is to live each day to be Christ like in my mind. And yes i struggle with that, i mean im a unwed single mom ...def not anywhere near "model", but i fall down and get back and try to keep walking the path he has for me with out straying.
i have nothing against the person, your decision is your decision, but i will love you for the person you are not the choices you make. To me marriage is not a civil right, the right of a citizen has nothing to do with marriage...thats a bond between man and woman. Again just my belief.
Maybe its just another step in the line that God has for people to create an amazing testimony in the end. Yet im still baffled on how someone deep in faith, deep in belief, doesnt believe that marriage was designed for one man and one woman.
In light f new family information that has been shared i am just confused with a heavy heart. I dont know if faith and belief has been lost or its just being ignored. I am happy to see my family so happy but sad that its not something i believe is in his will. SO its wrong of me to want this person to fail at this step in their life so that they can be the sinner who became a saint because they fell and got back up with an amazing testimony. I just want to know how a person of faith who tries to be Christ like feels that same sex marriage is ok in God will? Because they are happy so God will be happy they are happy? Because lots of things we do that make us happy on earth are not things that make God happy. In fact i think some are sins put here so we learn to avoid temptation and stand and fight the devil with his word as children of God.
My position and stance are known, i do not harp or nag others on my opinion, so i expect the same courtesy even if you do not believe what i do. Its known and we get passed that and focus on my love of the person, or friendship and not our different path choices. Doesnt mean i am less hurt for them or confused, i just dont need to keep hitting people over the head with what i believe and how i feel when its already known. At the same time this doesnt mean my beliefs are up for debate or to be tried and torn apart. Because any debate or discussion that questions my God is going back to "i have faith" period end of statement. I am a child of God and believe he is the Lord of Lords, Alpha and Omega creator of all things and i will continue to do all i can to be Christ like even though i may fall and fail i will get back up and keep trying even when my soul and body are tired. Thats what faith is believing with out doubt, and my faith bubbles over.
Even though my heart hurts for my family right now, i will continue to pray and have faith that all will work out. Which all i can do about my government making changes in those vows "man and woman coming together". no matter if votes get changed, more polices and laws are created, and school curriculum as now changed to allow teaching of sexual preference...my faith will stand.
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