Unattached SIngle Mother

I do not like the phrase "Single Mother"

I only do not care for the phrase b/c more associated it with negative terms and dont ask anything else about the matter. like, isolated, lone, loner, not general, not public, odd, peerless, secluded. Or like one of the possible definitions "pertaining to the unmarried state".

It seems that only people in a relations give you the "ahhh look". My story is not unique, nor do i want/need your empathy to try and "relate" to my current path in life when ur not anywhere near where i am. Which is probably also more than likely due to the argument my heart and mind are having but thats an whole new oprah or in this case possibly my next blog lol

Yeah i have gone down a non traditional road but hey it was apart of some plan on the bigger map of things. Doesnt mean i need anyone judging or trying to relate to me and what i am doing to make me "feel ok". Im still me. I am still a daughter, a sister, a college grad, an employee, a friend, a cousin, a niece and so much more. Now i am just unattached in a role where having an attachment would have been ideal, but the what if could have gone positive of negative in that as well...So i am living my life, i am an unattached working mother and that just sounds as if its more of my option and my choice rather then the alternative "Single Mother-who is isolated" that just sounds like a cup of pathetic with sympathy cherry on top waiting on some empathy topping to walk up! LOL